At WILLOW, we’re changing the conversation
Our goal is to transform the often overwhelming and fragmented process of advance planning into a rich opportunity for your personal growth and transformation.
We want you to check things off your to-do list and we want you to learn, grow and even find joy in the process. We want the energy you devote to planning and preparing for your inevitable death to make a difference to the richness of your life now.
We believe there are a bounty of questions worth exploring before you even begin to articulate your wishes for typical health care, estate and funeral planning.
Questions are at the heart of what and how we do things at WILLOW.
If you knew you had limited time to live:
- How would the reality of your mortality impact the way you live, now?
- What would you do?
- How do you want to feel?
- How would you share your most important life lessons?
- What attention would you give to seeking, bestowing or accepting forgiveness?
As a passionate lover of life, engaged and connected to your community:
- What courageous conversations will you have?
- What kind of goodbye ritual will reflect your authentic self?
- What kind of ceremony can best support your grieving family and friends?
- How will you continue to inspire people after you die?
- What’s your legacy?
While doing your best to live mindfully and walk lightly on our planet:
- How can your health and personal care wishes express your holistic values?
- What role might family and community led deathcare have in your planning?
- How can you “green” all the choices associated with your death?
- What is a green burial and what options exist in your community?
- How can your death positively affect the planet?
Getting clear and communicating your priorities and wishes about your dying, your deathcare and how you’ll be remembered, will undoubtedly foster your peace of mind, prevent regret and go a long way toward reducing anxiety and conflict for those closest to you.
Integrated Support
Our support integrates your emotions and your intellect, honours your body and your spirit, and we’re always mindful that your choices have implications for your pocketbook and our planet.
Wherever you are in your end of life planning, we’d be honoured to accompany you.
Michelle Pante
Co-Founder
Compassionate, creative, insightful, and able to cut through the chaos to achieve clarity, Michelle is energized by death, dying and grief as pathways to healing.
Prior to WILLOW, during her tenure with LEES+Associates, North America’s cracker-jack cemetery design and planning firm, Michelle was a key player in the launch of the Green Burial Society of Canada. She advocates for environmentally-sensitive and ecologically-sustainable interment, cremation, funeral service and bereavement-care practices in all aspects of deathcare delivery in Canada. Michelle volunteered with a children’s bereavement program at a local hospice and is a licensed Funeral Director in the province of British Columbia. She apprenticed with a corporately-owned funeral home and with KORU Cremation | Burial | Ceremony, a pioneering locally-owned and operated funeral provider. Michelle helps families from diverse cultural, faith and income backgrounds to say their goodbyes, honour the circle of life and have courageous conversations.
Reena Lazar
Co-Founder
A creative thinker, compassionate listener and a facilitator of peace on every level, Reena is fuelled by her passion for personal growth + transformation.
As someone committed to lifelong personal development, Reena has an eclectic background and education. She is a graduate of the BEyond Yonder Virtual School of Community Deathcaring in Canada, a twelve-week course given by ten different experts on such topics as grief, disposition, rituals, body care, advance planning, being with the dying, and funeral alternatives. Reena is committed to facilitating green and holistic approaches to death-care in our families, communities and in our culture at large. Prior to WILLOW, she created and led Peace it Together, which brought Palestinian, Israeli and Canadian youth together for dialogue, filmmaking and community engagement. She also taught conflict resolution for four years at Langara College as part of their peace and conflict studies concentration.
Why We’re Called Willow
Willow trees are diverse and ubiquitous at the same time; there are hundreds of willow tree species found throughout the world.
Willows are flexible, resilient, vigorous, regenerative, adaptive, useful, and beautiful.
Willows have healing properties. The tree bark is the source of salicylic acid, used in natural remedies and the active ingredient in the painkiller, Aspirin.
The classic graceful Weeping Willow is, in many cultures, a symbol of sorrow, mourning and even immortality. Willows evoke protection, movement and surrender.
Willows are soft and strong, able to thrive pretty much anywhere.
“The willow enables us to realize that within every loss lies the potential for something new.”
THE WISDOM OF TREES, JANE GIFFORD
